this will step on some toes, no doubt…
All this “feminism,” anti-“racism,” anti-“patriarchy,” anti-“anything,” has to stop.
All that’s happening is you giving voice to their argument against said movement.
“Anti-patriarchy,” you’re just saying exactly what they want to argue.
“Anti-racism,” it’s exactly what they want to argue.
“Anti-” whatever, it’s what the opposition wants.
Stop writing about the “anti-“s and practice them.
Practice makes perfect.
And better yet, perfect practice makes perfect.
Practice completely anti-bigotry ways, and you’ll get what you want.
To steal from a guy I’ve never really cared for, “He who is free of wrong may cast the first stone.”
Honestly, take from that teaching. Rid yourself of all that is morally and ethically wrong, and then, AND THEN, you can be angry at other people for their transgressions.